Your take?

Was watching this song…Gumshuda…gumshuda…koi hua….kahan hua…
Play back….. hostel dayzzz, Hostel Mess….. TV.. playing the same song……..when one of the girl said… SO embarrassing… people shouting for you…!!! :L

I don’t know, but sometimes I find “public display of love “ as “SWEET” and sometimes very embarrassing…!!! :d

IF someone is ready to propose you in front of hundreds of people I agree “He more gutsy” then who is looking for a “Kona” (corner). But at the same time I find it “more embarrassing” for a gal.

I still remember one of my friend, who was proposed by a guy in a hotel , with a bouquet of roses , guy on his knees and all crowd staring …….. Still when she narrates this incident she “blushes”. :$


It is completely an individual choice or rather… everyone loves it :$ !!!!Afterall who would mind “TO FEEL VERY SPECIAL” . :L

What’s your take? ;)



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Chakoli :)

37 comments:

geet said...

lol ..it is more embarrassing for a girl when she has to say NO to that kinda proposal in front of the huge crowd!!!

i like public display of affections but never to an extent of kissing in public :P ...

vijay said...

GM Chaks,

me 1st :))

I m the Kona type.

My best things r done as close to the heart as possible , away from the crowd.

vs

Chakoli said...

@geet:-)))

LOL.....

When she has to say No how cud that be embarrasing??
its moreover fine to say NO in public...;-)))

kissing/smocching... is not what I mean I mean here...like putting posters all over the track scremaning I love you... showering flowers...you walk down...;-)))


Does it feels aweosme??;-))

Chakoli said...

@vs:-))


I m surprised... u being ascorpio sayinf that....:-\....

I agree kona brings more sweet momenets" togetyer...but publocaly some one csremaing fr u....shud be nice as well...;-))

geet said...

abey tell me... any girl would feel bad for the guy when she would be saying NO in from the whole crowd... i mean everybody would be expecting her to say yes ...as you know all who's who would love to hear that... and then the whole responsibility on her to say just a NO ??

yaar i will leave the guy or will give him an ultimatum first,who would do all the these things for me... i would rather ask him to save that money he would be spending on those costly flowers and i can better buy a nice sexy party top or soemthing :P ...

actually i wont even pick this kinda guy as my bf :-P ...baaki ka sardard hi khatam!!!

Chakoli said...

@geet

LOL....


hmmmm... actually she would be under pressure

Agreed!!!!!!!

but publicaly NO kehne mein mast POPAT ho jayega ladke ka...;-)))


hehehehehhehehehe... arrey soultion hi fhatfat nikal diya aapne toh...kewl...!!! bf or hubby......these type cud be boring later u knw...
they raise our expectations nad when we want them to do daily... wud fite with us...;-))

vijay said...

Haha

maybe the scorpio eccect on me was'ent enough.

mybe am the shy type as far as romance is concerned.

vs

Satan said...

@Chakli (I will refer to u as this in our further conversation)

Well I dunno whether proposin a girl in a crowded placeis a good or bad idea I hve never done tht. But I mean as a guy who has fallen in love, I dont think he will think too much on this issue whether he has to propose when alone or in crowded place, for him the important issue is to propose. But this things depends upon the nature of guy, not all guy will propose a gal in crowded place. But for me its not a problem.

@Geet

Kissin in public is not a prob as I think. Well if ur in switzerland its normal to smooch in public there. So this is also a subjective thing. Well I dont mind kissin in public. I hve done it many times to Rush.Me(Taxi, auto, railway station etc etc....)

LOL !!! aabhi to mein gaya kaam se.

churningthewordmill said...

had i been that hostel friend of your's and had the whole world watching ,i wud have just simply perished because of embarassment..

Chakoli said...

@VS:-)))

haan ab to mujhe aapke scorpio hoone pe hi doubt ho rah ahain...;-))

Chakoli said...

@Ssatan

Sure...u cud call me Chakli...no issues in that...:-))


HE wud fr sure... not everyone has guts to propose girls...in public...I m sure...:-))

Chakoli said...

@Mandira...
LOL.....

u wud....


hehehhehehehhee...it is really embarrasing....but may be u wud cherish it later???isnt??;-))

CM-Chap said...

LOL.. So wat type u belong to?

I guess, I prefer totaly private space.

Chakoli said...

@cm0chap

two scorpions disappointed me...:-(((

again private space....

I dont know.....:-((((

Sandhya said...

public display of affection.... totally No. No.

Satan said...

@Sandhya

Kyu No no no.....

Homecooked said...

Mine was an arranged marriage,so when my hubby came to see me he bought a huge bouquet of roses.It was quite embarassing as he gave it to me in front of my parents but I still think of it fondly :)

vijay said...

2 bad Chaks,

Aaj kal aslee scorpios bhee banney band ho gaye..sab duplicate maal hai ...hahahah


anyway..go ahead & lead us scorpios wid unabashed public romance. :D:D

vs

vijay said...

nd

absolutely gorgous backdrop - CHOCOLATE :))))))

vs

Chakoli said...

@sandhya:-)))

why no no dear??
any specific reasons??;-)))

Chakoli said...

@Homecooked:-)))

how nice and cute expression...:-)))

I agree in frnt of ur parents it very embarrasing..:_)))

Chakoli said...

@vs

udaiye udiaye mazaak udaiye..
ek aur aapka shargid "cm-chap" aapki hi category mein aa gaya hain...;-))))

hey bhagwaan yeh kya kiya saare bichooon ko...;-)))

Chakoli said...

@vs

thanks for backgnd...chocs(aka chaks) are always...gorgeaous...;-0))

Ankur said...

i would love to do it... :)
its a gr8 feelin i must say, to say it aloud, every one dreams to do so for their love... :)

i hope one does it for me someday... someone accept now tat she loves me *sigh*

i do understand tat an indian girl will feel embarrased so i will only go for it when i get a certain hint from d girl tat she loves me... otherwise i dont want her to feel the pressure to say yes to me :)

Cheers!!!

Ankur said...

n i felt nostalgic going back to the hostel days... u saw d pics na... they r my best friends... all from hostel :D :D

Cheers!!!

shival said...

Agar pyar hi nahi toh phir izhar kaise bhi ho fark nahi padta...
Aur agar pyar hain toh izhar ho isse bhi fark nahi padta....

Was interesting, will keep visiting...

shival ... sukhanwar said...

Agar pyar nahi toh izhar kaise bhi ho fark nahi padta...
Aur gar pyar hain toh phir sshayad izhar ki bhi zaroorat na ho...
Was interesting...
Will keep visiting...

Chakoli said...

@Ankur jee:-)))

Aap sab samajte hain...;-)))

Anyone for you...dont know if gals are now so daring to that...I wouldnt be surprised if they do so coz...;-)))

so waiit for ur "GAl"....... she would shout from the roof top.....;-)))

I swear even for me...hostel dayzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz muuuuuahhhhhhh just awesome man!!! they simply rocked...:-)))

Chakoli said...

@Shival :-)))

Thanks for ur visit.....I agree...to what u said...but still... koi beech bazaar mein aake chilaye....hai tauba!!!! kuch toh sharam kiya karo jee...;-)))

Sure...u r always welcome:-))

geet said...

@Satan : hmm switzerland is cool man... i still dont like smooching in public... simple gets conscious. abt kissing ,i am find with sweet peck on lips :) ... rest we can deal in somewhere private :)

Vrij said...

I'd rather prefer solitude than the crowd.. coz these are private moments and one can let out true emotions in private only and not in the midst of a hundred people staring at you.

Ankur said...

yes... they simply rock... hostel days were d best...

and haan main sab jaanta hoon :D :D
mwaaaahhhhhhh

hehe

Cheers!!!

Chakoli said...

@Vrij:_)))

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm...
good one:_)))

private mein emotions ekdum overflow hote hain na...;-)))

Chakoli said...

@Ankur Jee:-)))

Hostel days... feeling nostalic now...:-(((

theek hain theek hain... moorkh balak... sangat ka aasar(yani mera) to padgea hi na...

vEENs said...

welll.... i hate to see these things happening in parks and all.. itis hell of embarresing for the "accident" watcher :D

but... proposing and all.. thats fine :)

it is gr8 to FEEL special :)

Chakoli said...

@veens:-))

same here... people get out of ctrl when in some "KONA" but in public....:-)))

Pri said...

err i think il'l agree with u on this...
it can be sweet when someone u love proposes to you infront of ppl...would feel special and definitely impressed...

but if its someone u not in love with and if ur answer would be a no...or u dunno what to say...or maybe are confused....then i guess it would be embarassing for sure :-/

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