Pick The Best!

Sometimes there are so many things in a platter; it’s difficult to choose, to decide, what if the decision went wrong? :f

May be, or may be not!!!
But what I think god always plot your mind that “you pick up the best”. :y

And so no regrets!!!! :~


Keep Faith
Chakoli :)

48 comments:

BIG Omi said...

Good Morning Chakoli...
Whassup Sweety?

What decision you wanna take..

I do it this way..
1.Evaluation of option
2. Simulation of after decision environment..
3. Choose the best .. which gives the best..

p.s- this methods leves you bewildered and confounded at the start..

Tc.
Omi

Mr . Lonely said...

Well depends.. what the person considers best, some choice which you have not made may appear the best to someone else and not necessarily to you.........
for instance you may choose low paying jobs which may be seem best by industry or market standard , but not something you are passionate about and would love to do.
and another example........
we may choose someone to be our companion who may not be good looking or "Good Enough" for you (people will be telling us- "he/she is not good enough for you or you deserve someone better") but we may know that this is the person we are most comfortable with ..... hmm what do you say???

Chakoli said...

@Bomy

A very good morning :_))

So hw r u??

Hmmmm.... startegy is kewl... but soemtimes all gives you the same result.. if something is good at this...other is good at this...
the only thing left at this point is INSTICNTS... which drive you right...!!!
isnt??

Chakoli said...

@Mr Lonely

Agreed to what u said... then it comes to priority... is what I would say...
choose ur pririties... and then decide...
what u want... good looks or better comapny...

But sometimes even prirites are high... hw abt good loks and better comapany together??;-))

Mr . Lonely said...

yes agreed.. that's what even i meant that priorities vary with individuals.. As for "good looks and better company" maybe its not in the platter. or maybe the person qualifies for "good looks and better company" in your view but not for someone else..

And a word on repenting.. if your upto repenting you will feel that every thing you have chosen/done could have been done in a better way...and would always need to unsatifaction anyway.. so ........

Mr . Lonely said...

Another thought on choices.. for few of us its..

"Apni marzi se kahan apne safar ke hum hain...
Rukh hawa ka jidhar ka hai udhar ke hum hai.."

BIG Omi said...

Oh yes its easy to delegate this responsibility on INSTINCT?
Thou,
I would like to know what do you understand by Instincts.
:D

tc.
Omi

rantravereflect said...

ya're ryet- i always think wat ya've done, ya've done best!!

cos life can never be happy, if it's filled with 'what ifz'!!!! :)

taureandude_23 said...

hi Chakoli
good to see another o3ian:D
well variety is the spice of life they say. wouldnt it be super boring if we always gt what was best 4 us. so the masterplan by the ONE seems to work wonders:d

take care
ciao!

Satan said...

Best of Luck...

If u need help I m there.... :)

Phoenix said...

Thing is, the "best" is such a relative subjective thing ;)

Ankur said...

u know its like the game...woh darwaze wala...
u have to choose one, and then u choose thinking that u pic d best... but is there any option???

U choose and u get something, or may be nothing sometimes... i too often knock the wrong door and realise that oh... wrong door!!!
but one only learn from mistakes!!!

Its better to attempt and then fail rather than not attempting at all and just boggle!!!

And i dont have any regrets yet, may it was best or not!!! :)

Life is about perspective so i dont choose/pick the best but i think that wat i have picked is d best!!! :)

Cheers!!!

Ankur said...

@Pheonix

I totally agree with u... For a poor guy eating his lunch is d best and for us... eating 4 times a days cant be best at times!!! :)

Cheers!!!

vijay said...

GA Chaks,

yes, each wud pick up , from a platter whtever appeals 2 him/her. & whats best differs wid different people :))

vs

Chakoli said...

@Mr Lonely...
good point lonely... but some how repenting about ur pasts... naah... I would never do it.. I treid.. giving my 100 %... and if u r repenting u usually loose ur presnt...:-))

Chakoli said...

@Bomy

INSTINTS for me have to what my heart says... I dont know but there is always an option for which u wud be attracted soem hw...and u mite know the reasons... it happens... i wont say there is a click in ur heart produces sounds... but u just come to know...:-))

Chakoli said...

@Taurean...
LOL...
if agar na ho toh... kya life? :-))

Chakoli said...

@rantra

oops sorry I addressed that to taurean... that was for you :-|

Chakoli said...

@taurean...

Thanks Thanks :-))

yup I know... the only constant in this life is change...;-))

Chakoli said...

@Satan

I knw Satan... u r always thr;-))

Chakoli said...

@Phoneix...

Yup its relative , so realtive to us only we consider :-))

Chakoli said...

@Ankur

So ideally u are choosing BEST ;-)))

and thats what I said...:-))

Chakoli said...

@vs

u r always right!!!:-))

BIG Omi said...

oho.. so your instincts guides your rationality?

you are correct?? sometime listening to cognitive mind or heart takes you to right way..

You so matured..
Common now get me a MAP .. i always get lost in your ideas..

Tc :)
OMi

Mr . Lonely said...

well said. !! :)

Ankur said...

NO...not at all dear... u have minced my words!!! :P

wat i have said that wat u have picked is best... not tat wats best is picked by you;)

take some time and shayad samajh main aa jaaye aapko :P
hehe

Cheers!!!

Chakoli said...

@Bomy...


wt u got lost....

hehhehehehhee

map wont help... u need to listen to ur instincts...;-)))

Chakoli said...

@Mr lonely...

Thanks..
this I was abt to aks u earlier...
why Lonely??

Chakoli said...

@Ankur

nopes I never screwed ur wrds...

But on trying and what u pick is best... actually ur consious says that its best...isnt??

so relatively... u are picking the BEST:-))

Ankur said...

NO!!!

i said take ur time...
but u again jumped the gun!!

**But on trying and what u pick is best... actually ur consious says that its best...isnt??

did i say that???
read again ;)

Cheers!!!

vijay said...

kya rey Chaks,
from when am i right :DDD

vs

Satan said...

Debate continues...........

Chakoli said...

@Ankur jee:-))


I mite have screwed up words..but i got it what u said...

I didnt jumped the gun as i dnt have;-))

I said... ur consious says what... yup u opted fr best... isnt...

so BEST is with you :-))

Chakoli said...

@vs:-))


sometimes u r;-))

Ankur said...

oye...

theek hai...

jaao maaf kara :P :P
hehe

Cheers!!!

KP! said...

sometimes its difficult to choose one....I`ll go with my Instinct...once you go with it...thats it...no regrets...:)

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Mr . Lonely said...

hi Chakoli.. missing your blog on weekends . :( .. as for being lonely am not really a loner now. that was a phase sometime back. still somethings
are missing even now.. but then as you say..
"Rehne de aasmaan….
Zamin ki talaash kar….
Sab kuch yahi hain….
Na kuch aur talash kar….
Har aarzu puri ho to?
Jeene mein kya maaza??
Jin eke liye bus ek kami ki talaash kar……"...

:) ..

take care,
Amit

Sensitive:-) Jigyasa said...

Yeah God plots the mind that we pick up the best.....but if it all he miss......one should not allow the self to regret....rather take some rest and strive again for best....!!!!

What say Chaks??

geet said...

hmm ..kiss cheez ke baare mein baat chal rai hai :)..


i say You decide to choose the best,God is just a silent viewer of your life...

Solitaire said...

Good one!! We all need these small reminders from time to time!

Everything happens for the best!

Chakoli said...

@satan

debate would continue ;-))

Chakoli said...

@KP:-))

thanks for supporting me:-))

Chakoli said...

@Ashu:-))


LOL..
crush....

hehhehehhehe
wud surely come:-)

Chakoli said...

@Mr Loenly:_))

then change ur name to Mr HAppy ;-)))

Chakoli said...

@Jigsysa:-))

Yup yup very true:-))

Chakoli said...

@geet


nopes silent viewer...but he only drives us...:-))

Chakoli said...

@solitaire:-))

Yup yup evrything happnes fr best:-))

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