Strangers

Yesterday , I just picked my phone and dialed a number. It was picked up on other side and there was a question “Kaisi hain?”.

And then we chatted for 1.5 hr or so !!!!

This was one of my routine friend, to whom I used to talk everyday like anything, had a fight and both went silent for a month or so and suddenly when I dialed we had so many things to talk and just not “about the fight”. We were enjoying it….. After every 5 mins I used to say… Kitna aacha lag raha hain, itne dino ke baad baat karke :). And he agreed on that…!!

In a relation its better to be strangers sometimes, you would enjoy more then anybody could.

I have seen many of friends who are committed , when they apart How they are dying to meet each other and when they meet… its like “ samundar ka saara pyaar udel do “!!!!

Be strangers for some time…. And would really add spice to your life :).


Keep Faith
Chakoli :z

59 comments:

Sandhya said...

hi chakoli,

ya, dats absolutely true....

if we give sum space in our relationship, it seriously rocks.....

Sandhya said...

n BTW who is dat?????

We wud like to more abt him.... u know wat chatted in 1.5 hr.....:-)

burf said...

1.5 hours

tera gala dard nahi kiya itni lambi baat karte karte? :D :P

Chakoli said...

@sandhya...

:-)))

Space...yup that is toh very must condition..but it is different from what I saying here.....


and btw...he is one of my gd frd...dont let ur mind wander that much:-)))

Chakoli said...

@burf...

gala kyun dard karega??
bhagwaan ne gala isliye diya hain;-))

burf said...

bhagwan ne to legs chalne ke liye di hain to kya tum har waqt chalti rehti ho? :P

aur bi bhagwan ne bahut kuch diya hai, wo bhi sab kuch har waqt chalta rehta hai kya? ;) :D

Chakoli said...

@burf...
saansen, aankhen, dil,...jigar.... sab chalta rehta hain...
har waqt...
har lamha
har ghadhi;-)))

burf said...

maine aapki legs ke baare mein pucha tha shayad...

KP! said...

wow 1.5 hr...its too much....:). i cant talk for more than 15 mins. u called him...hmm......usually its other way around....lolz
well i guess
All is well that ends well.

Chakoli said...

@burf...
arrey....legs se jyada bataya maine....


:DDD

Chakoli said...

@KP...
yup when its gf-bf thing its usually other way rounbd...but when its...frds thing...usually gals call:PPP
never experineced this kya??

just 15 mins....lol....is that tooo much fr u:pPP

vEENs said...

gotta try it ..waise i dnt knw ;)

Ankur said...

hey...
nice to hear that u wiped off the differences...
:)

and u talkin abt keeping faith... how long, its already been 6 months... u kiddin me :D

agreed, sometimes when u become stranger and then u meet... its awesome, the nostalgic feelings come back and u love the person more :)

wow... u have got emotions girlie!!!

Take CAre...
Cheers!!!

btw... i dont do bak-bak.. samjhi :P lolzzz

Chakoli said...

@veens...

Sure dear go ahead...;-))

Ankur said...

**“ samudaar ka saara pyaar udel do “!!!!

btw... yeh sammudar kya hota hai??? :O

*ankur wonders*

i think u have just made a spelling mistake... samundar hona chaiye... :P *ROFL
hehhehe

burf said...

nahi, hum sirf abhi aapki legs pe hi concentrate karenge ;) :P :D

Chakoli said...

@ANkur...


nice to hear that u wiped off the differences...
:)

Differences are meant to be wiped off:-))

and u talkin abt keeping faith... how long, its already been 6 months... u kiddin me :D

just 6 mnths.....!!! woh to "chutki" baja ke nikal jaate hain:-))

everyon e have emotions...some express it some dont:-))

bak-bak.... okie..then what shud be the right word??chatter:PPPP

yup..its samundar...hhehehehehehe....no body point out...u seem to be a good consultant....:PPP

Chakoli said...

@burf....

AApki marzi....

upto u:-)))
hum kuch aur dhood lete hain concentrate karne ke liye:PPP

Sandhya said...

hi chakoli,

fast ke baad mera menu mein hoga:-

golgappa, chhole bhature, dosa, rajma rice, burger n list is endless.......

dear, my mouth is badly watering:-))))

Ankur said...

abhi 3 baar chutki bajayi.. phir bhi nahi nikale... gosh.. how many times more do u want me to chutki bajao... :O

and yes.. i m.. consultant... good or bad u decide :D ;)

Chakoli said...

@sandya...

LOL....

So much prepartaion;-))))

would be fun to njoy the delicaies back:-))

Chakoli said...

@Ankur...

Thoda dil se chutki bajao.....
yeh nahi ki bajate gaye...koi "BAJA" samaj ke:PPP

I agreed on that, you are good one:-0))

vijay said...

Hey Chaks,

all the while i was checking on o3 4 ur new posts :(((

gud post, reminded me of the famous rafi song - CHALO EK BAR FIR SEY , AJANABEE BAN JANJAIY HUM DONO

yes, nostalgia - wid old friends who are true, & no bit of small differences come in the way :))

vs

Ankur said...

n wat have u done with ur header????
:O

:O

koi nahi bajega... :P
i dont bajaooo like MTV... :P

hehehe...

i tried hard enugh... dil kahan hai par... ab toh sirf pathhar hai :D

:D

Cheers!!!

and btw... Good Morning... i love those songs... and life is sad so r songs... :D

;)

waise will reply there tomorrow :)

Ankur said...

even d pics r gone???

burf said...

LOL

thank you very much for letting me ;) :P

Chakoli said...

@vijay...

Wow...even I love that songs...

I altho didnt got the real meaning of the song...until and unless Iwrote this:-))

Differences actually make people come more closer..
wt say??

Chakoli said...

@ankur...
header is not good kya??
I liked those bamboos...i dnt knw but why those pics are gone :_(((


pathaar.....jhoot..jhoot....

pathar hota to....dard bhare nagme nahi lagagte apne post par.....;-))

waise kyun kal kyuj reply karenge??
aaj kyun nahi??;-))

Chakoli said...

@burf...
anything fr u;-))

Ankur said...

hahaha...
sahi keh rahihai.. :D

header is good.. but its kinda on the right hand sand... occupying everything.. left hand side is empty... i m not sayin header is not good... even i like bamboos, infact nature for tat matter, but the header is not properly positioned/located i guess.. waise its ur choice... my opinion doesnt matter much...

also aaj isliye nahi coz i m still thinking... as u said :D
;)

Cheers!!!

btw.. the reply on other post is still awaited :))

P.S. u still havent changed the spelling... :P :P

Sensitive:-) Jigyasa said...

May be it works and may be not...!!! Like one of Jagjit Singh ji's ghazal says, "Khamoshi ka haasil bhi ek lambi khamoshi hai".....but am happy for u!!

Keep Smiling!!

Chakoli said...

@ankur...


Chalo we agree to something:-)))

I cud see my header centrally loacted....I dnt understand why u see rt side....

and ur opinion does matters to me:-))


what are u thinking waise??:PPP


lol...yups I forgot again to change it:-))

Chakoli said...

@Jigayasa...


LOL....
it depends on hw loooong u want to be starngers:_)))

Homecooked said...

Oh...wow,nice advice :)

churningthewordmill said...

im so glad u made up with ur friend!:D

vijay said...

Hey Chaks,

rather than differences, I feel seperation 4 a period of time make u miss the other person.

when u meet always, the tendency is 2 take the other person 4 granted 2 an extent, & when the person is away, then starts the yearning & realizing his/her value.

vs

KP! said...

"never experineced this kya??"
I dont fight with my friends.....hahaha....just kidding...its an everyday affair....
15 minute se jyada means headache :). its better to meet somewhere and talk instead of holding on to the phone for long time....

Ankur said...

haha... i dont think too much into anything... keep it simple is the motto!!! specially abt such kinda statements :)

waise wat kinda resoulution u r using???

The page is stretched so one has to scroll to the right side to see it... and also i cant see it in the middle of the page... its totally right side... :)

ya if u want us to scroll to our right intentionally then its ok... :)

Ankur said...

i did send the mail how it looks in my browser

AlterinG Abhishek said...

WHOA!

yeah...

and they say familiarity breeds contemp!

Aaarti said...

hey Chakoli

That is so sweet n true... :)

Thanks for the wishes, passed em on to dad..:)

cool new look on blog.. love the bamboo shoots(they are bamboo right??:P)

Vamsi said...

@ chakoli ...

very true ...

known people whom we love and adore ... if they just dont keep in touch due to circumstances ...

they become "known strangers", and we find them even more attractive and lovable ... would want to spend more time with them ... :-))

nice post ...

Ankur said...

u got the pics back... no wonder u call urself a software professional :P

Cheers!!!

Chakoli said...

@homecooked...

Thanks dear:-))

@mandira:_)))

So am I:-))

Chakoli said...

@vijay...


Agreed comepletely:-)))

woh kehte hain na...tanhai ke baad milne ka maaza hi alag hain...;-))

Chakoli said...

@KP...

LOL...
but when ur frd is ....some miles away...its better to clear ur misunderstandings then keep waiitng fr him/her to meet up:-)))

Chakoli said...

@ANkur...

LOL...

Yup Iw anted you guys to.... do soem scrolling...atelast thr is soem exercise to ur fingers;-))

Chakoli said...

@Abhishek:-)))


yups...:-)))

@Aarti...
Thanks dear:-))0


they are bamboos...ewven I liked them:-))

Chakoli said...

@Vamsi...
very true dear:-)))

@ANkur...

MY line is back to me:PPP

Ankur said...

oh... i did not know tat :)

btw... we scroll down anyways to read what you write... isnt it ;) ;)

Thanks for Support!!!
:P

Cheers!!!

Ankur said...

and havent u heard... wat u give is wat comes back to u :D
:D

;);)

cheers!!!

Chakoli said...

@Ankur:-)))

LOL...

Yup...thats the reason earth is round....;-)))

kitne agyani hain aap...;-)))sab humko batan apadta hain....;-)))

Ankur said...

dear chakoli aunty...

lagta hai budhape main aapki yaaddasth kamjor ho gayi hai... cheetah peh par na chad paaye toh bhi rehta cheetah hi hai.. :D

;)

Gud Day!!!!

and thanks for making the obvious... so obvious :P :P

Chakoli said...

@ANkur...


lol.....

autny nahi matajee keh sakte hain aap;-)))

Ankur said...

arre bhai.. hum toh majak kar rahe the.. aur aap bura maan gaye...

ok sorry... no more aunty ji or mataji...

just chakoli.. waise i thot this is ur real name ;) ;)

hehehe...
but its a sweet name neways :)

Chakoli said...

LOL....

humhe bura!!!!

Shree shree 1008 shree chakoli matajee inn sab se bahut upar hain....;-))

Thats my nick name:-))

thanks..u liked it:-))

Ankur said...

oh... nahi...

sr sri sri 1008 mataji.... nahi

yeh balpan ki hath main aapne kya kar diya :((

:P *ROFL

acha hai yaa.. if u have uppar utho from all this... :D

ur nick is sweet then... i m not disappointed anymore :D

Take CAre!!
Cheers!!!

Chakoli said...

@Ankur...

balpan...ye lo...buddpa aa chuka hain...aur aapko humhara balpan hi dikh raha hain;-))))

Chalo....thankfully u r nt disappointed anymore;-))))I cud change my name....LOL....:PPPP

Ankur said...

ahahaha.... i dont know ur age but i can read wat u write... :)

so guess i can guess how old u may be :P

and its nice to see that u have changed the samundar to really sound a sea now :P
:P

the name is urs as so ur wish!!! :D

Cheers!!!

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