Did you met someone today?

Every single day of our life we are interacting with a lot of people. People whom we know or maybe we just met for the first time.

Some of them are so cheerful, funny, enthusiastic positive, optimist kind of people; others can be in bad moods, nervous crying or screaming for no reason at everyone they met. Bole toh…jaisa saara duniya ka dard inhone apne mein samet liya hain!!!!! Others are suspicious all the time and doubt every single word you are saying. What they think…are we there wife/husband dating some boy/gal!!!! But somehow,all of them can influence our mood, our day and even our life if we let them to do it.

We can avoid them for sure by not meeting them again but how about the people we meet online.(Yup I know there is facility of “BLOCKING” or you going invisible, or you going private…and lot more….). But the point here I want to talk is that , we can meet here thousands of people. This is a good thing just because your chances to find a compatible person to talk to are unlimited. But till we find that special one we are supposed to talk and interact with dumb, desperate, sad, nervous or not too serious people. If we spend too much of our time with an inappropriate person, it can have some bad influence on us and our mood.Another fact I have notice is that many of us are tempted to discus our problems with unknown people because we know that them can't tell our problems to all of our friends.Each time I listen this and it reminds me…. "Anyone will give you an advice but nobody is going to give you a slice of bread, when you most need it."

The idea is that if we are paying attention to everyone around us, they can influence our life in a dramatic way. I am saying this because no one can know better than us what is happening in our life and in our soul. Nobody can know better than us what we really want to have, what is missing, or where we want to be in our life. Just be the master of your life.


Keep Faith
Chakoli :)


PS: Just updated my other post with Aap aur Hum.....

44 comments:

Satan said...

Another fact I have notice is that many of us are tempted to discus our problems with unknown people because we know that them can't tell our problems to all of our friends

Yup I agree u on tht.

Well generally I talk with unknown online friends just for knowledge sharing purpose. I like to read the phsycology of persons, whether meetim them online or face to face. But my experience of chattin with online people was so irritating (except once) that I left all together the idea of chattin with online friends

Vrij said...

I do meet new people everyday as part of my job. Some of them are cheerful, some irritating, many apprehensive and most of them scared.

But there is something for me to learn from them each day. How I talk to them, deal with them, makes me understand them better. Day by day, I tend to become better on that front!

vijay said...

Hie Chaks.

U r so rite @ all what u write.
Yet what i write r my personal view.

- Man being a social animal has to interact with others. even knowing your own drawbacks , at times needs help of others to make those subtle changes in oneself & as u rightly say, at times blog sites etc, help.

- Things seem different at a younger age & later on its a very different way the world goes.

- Good company is important & so are certain constraints. U wud agree that a child wud listen less 2 his/her mother but wud immediately do so , his teacher. even simple things like drinking milk.

- Lastly, i agree that some people r happy go lucky, while others will brood all the time.but i also believe there are many aspects in each persons life that influence such behaviour, maybe not entirely, but to a large extent. They say na - walk in the other mans shoes a hundred feet & then judge him.

vs

Pri said...

u are absolutely right...
cheers to that!! :)

heyy btw is ur email addie :chakoli2@gmail.com or chakoli@gmail.com
have sent the invite to both...
u had written to me saying its chakoli2@gmail.com...
but the invite isnt accepted as yet...
let me know if u got it :)

ruSh.Me said...

Yup I know there is facility of “BLOCKING” or you going invisible, or you going private…and lot more….).

Can we Block someone in our real life??? Wish i could!!!

Well, I have a huge list of online friends....and they all know a certain part of my life.... its like a a jigsaw puzzle... everyone is having a different piece.. putting them all together might not complete me yet.... but its good to vent out ur anger, frustration, happiness, vigor, when u don't have anything else... sort of selfish...but cant help it....

@ Satan: But my experience of chattin with online people was so irritating (except once) that I left all together the idea of chattin with online friends

Whose that Once Lucky person,.......??? ;-)

Ankur said...

can i agree to u :)

Cheers!!!

Sandhya said...

hi Chakoli,

This is absolutely true that there r so many people having different characterstics n all are differnet in his/her way.

Chakoli said...

@Satan...

Yup I agree u on tht.

Well generally I talk with unknown online friends just for knowledge sharing purpose. I like to read the phsycology of persons, whether meetim them online or face to face. But my experience of chattin with online people was so irritating (except once) that I left all together the idea of chattin with online friends

I dont know....may be I m wrong...but you can never judge a person pysology by this...many a times...people simply copy from one site ...and post it on theres....so beliving that wt u r seeing woud be his on creation...is completely wrong....:-)))

Who is the lucky one well...??:PPPP

Chakoli said...

@Vrij....

meeting in person...and meeting online are 2 diff things...and that too when peopel are always inrtsted in lieing....

In this virtual world...hw cud nayone even say that he/she knows you??

vEENs said...

righto madam :)))

kya baat hai ;))

Satan said...

I dont know....may be I m wrong...but you can never judge a person pysology by this...many a times...people simply copy from one site ...and post it on theres....so beliving that wt u r seeing woud be his on creation...is completely wrong....:-)))

Yup I agree on u again, seein their profile I used to get impressed but while chattin they turned out to b sum bullshit!!! (may b I was too inclined to opposite sex) Thts y I mentioned tht I got irritated, I dunno mite b mite luck was runnin bad (as usual).

And I think the lucky one shud introduce herself here.

Chakoli said...

@vs:-)))

U r so rite @ all what u write.
Yet what i write r my personal view....u r always welcome dear:-))

- Man being a social animal has to interact with others. even knowing your own drawbacks , at times needs help of others to make those subtle changes in oneself & as u rightly say, at times blog sites etc, help.

They help...but there is always a proability of being caught in trouble...:-(((

- Things seem different at a younger age & later on its a very different way the world goes.

I couldnt get ur point...:-((

- Good company is important & so are certain constraints. U wud agree that a child wud listen less 2 his/her mother but wud immediately do so , his teacher. even simple things like drinking milk.....

LOL.... So see...in way you answered it...that be belive in strangrers more often then...to whom we are close... which raises risk...:-)))

- Lastly, i agree that some people r happy go lucky, while others will brood all the time.but i also believe there are many aspects in each persons life that influence such behaviour, maybe not entirely, but to a large extent. They say na - walk in the other mans shoes a hundred feet & then judge him......

Line was tooo good:-))
never heard of it...:-)))

got it frm ravi shankar book kya...which u r reaiding currently;-)))

burf said...

chakko - kya ho gaya tereko, mein nahi tha to tu to philosopher ho gayi?

Chakoli said...

@pri:-)))

u are absolutely right...
cheers to that!! :)

Thnaks sweetie:-)))

My id is chakoli2@gmail.com

I wonder how come I havent received it yet......

Could you send it again??pullleeezz:-))

Chakoli said...

@rush.me

Can we Block someone in our real life??? Wish i could!!!

:-))))

Thast really a good point...:-)))
we can't...:-)))

Putting it out as amode of cleaning is okay...but the only thing is that.... the suggestions offered by them ...(as they just know us in pieces) could be (its always not the case..) wrong...and may lead us to wrong path...:-))

Chakoli said...

@Ankur...

You have to...otherwise......;-))))))

Chakoli said...

@Sandhya..
so true...:-)))

People are different yet we try to look for soemone like us...:-)))

Chakoli said...

@Satan....

Yup I agree on u again, seein their profile I used to get impressed but while chattin they turned out to b sum bullshit!!! (may b I was too inclined to opposite sex) Thts y I mentioned tht I got irritated, I dunno mite b mite luck was runnin bad (as usual).

Yup u are right.... its alwayss luck..to meet good ones... or bad ones..:-)))

And I think the lucky one shud introduce herself here....
ohh wow...then ask her to do so:-)))

Chakoli said...

@veens:-)))

thanks thanks:-)))

Chakoli said...

@burf...
LOL...dekh liya aaasar...akele chutti manan eka:PPPP

ruSh.Me said...

@ Chakoli & Satan:
The Lucky(Purely Subjective) One is Introducing Herself...!!!!

:D

Chakoli said...

@rush me...

I thot so...that it would you:_))))

thanks fr introducing urself:-)))

Ankur said...

otherwise??? :O

is this a threat or an advice :P :P

hehhe
Cheers!!

vijay said...

yeh Chaks
1. @ making changes in one self - its like this , we all know whats good & bad, yet we need 2 go to some discourses & be told @ Gods ways & we come back slightly changed 4 a few days, then back 2 normal. U must have sen the HUGE crowds when som saintly person speaks etc. In daily life 2 , we always tend 2 accept something when say, some friends tell us.
2.A person is carefree when young, he/she is ambitious but still carefree. Later in life, supporting family/jopb/business/position in society/managing wid 2 sets of relatives etc, changes u & ur perspective. U may want 2 do something, yet have 2 keep so many things in mind that u just let it go by.
3.U wud agree Chaks that a child wud behave differently in front of the teacher, & without disrespect for parents, still take it a bit lightly. Even when mother tells something a second time, we tend to snap back at her, but not wid our friends or outsiders & if its the person u love, it cud be said any no. of times.
4. No, its not from Ravi shankers book, its an old known wisdom. U must have read on the net @ the guy in a london tube wid his kids , making a big racket, till the people made a complaint to him, as he was sitting silently, he then told them that he was just returning from his wifes funeral, who had just died of cancer etc. & as such was oblivious to the racket his kids made. So Chaks, when we judge others , we dont realize the circumstances that peron is facing.

& the Books name is " Wisdom for the new Millennium: _ Shrishri Ravi shanker.

vs

~ ॐ ~ said...

mila na... main mila...

Sutta said...

Very true!

Chakoli said...

@Ankur...


LOL...no threat no advice.....;-)))
seedha..... "ACT" karne ka...;-))

Chakoli said...

@vs

1. @ making changes in one self - its like this , we all know whats good & bad, yet we need 2 go to some discourses & be told @ Gods ways & we come back slightly changed 4 a few days, then back 2 normal. U must have sen the HUGE crowds when som saintly person speaks etc. In daily life 2 , we always tend 2 accept something when say, some friends tell us.
I agree to ur point...thats the reason i said that...whn u r with online frds...please dont get involved in whatever they say...u know..just recently..there was this news saying that site is being used by youngsters where they teach u hw cud u suicide...and many had followed it:-(((

2.A person is carefree when young, he/she is ambitious but still carefree. Later in life, supporting family/jopb/business/position in society/managing wid 2 sets of relatives etc, changes u & ur perspective. U may want 2 do something, yet have 2 keep so many things in mind that u just let it go by.
Again yes for this... You are absoltley correct...someone said na..one life is nt enufff...:-))
3.U wud agree Chaks that a child wud behave differently in front of the teacher, & without disrespect for parents, still take it a bit lightly. Even when mother tells something a second time, we tend to snap back at her, but not wid our friends or outsiders & if its the person u love, it cud be said any no. of times.

Agreed on that complety dear:-))
4. No, its not from Ravi shankers book, its an old known wisdom. U must have read on the net @ the guy in a london tube wid his kids , making a big racket, till the people made a complaint to him, as he was sitting silently, he then told them that he was just returning from his wifes funeral, who had just died of cancer etc. & as such was oblivious to the racket his kids made. So Chaks, when we judge others , we dont realize the circumstances that peron is facing.

Wrong wud always be wrong.....no matter what...I agree... We are not judging person under what circumstances he is... but thats what it istaught... when u are under pressure...you could be tempted to do wrongs things as they seems easy ...and most imporatantly ...the need in that situtaion...but its upto a person hw string he is..and what path he chooses....:-))

& the Books name is " Wisdom for the new Millennium: _ Shrishri Ravi shanker....:-)))

Chakoli said...

@Om:-))))

LOL....arrey haan mein bhool gayi thi...:PPP

Chakoli said...

@sutta

Thanks dear:-))

Sandhya said...

hi dear

kaise ho?? nothg spl frm my side.....

vijay said...

Hie Chaks,
#4 @ behaving differently due to circumstances, Ok, one shud have ones convictions & follow those only. I wud agree wid u 2 an extent, but having seen life much more, have had 2 use discretion at times rather tahn valour, & then salveged many a situations by doing things against my nature.
Happy the end results were gud. :))

vs

burf said...

to maine kab mana kiya, tu aja, sath chalte hain trek par :D

Chakoli said...

@vs

may be I m wrong...:_)))

But at this stage I think that way....:-)))

Chakoli said...

@Sandhya...
I m fine re..:-)))

just had fun today in ofc..:-)))

Chakoli said...

@burf...

bilkul...bolo kab chalna hain??;-)))

KP! said...

this is what i needed.....
sometimes you just cant win in life....and it sucks.
I wish i cna be master of my life....:).

vijay said...

Hie Chaks,

U r NEVER wrong & u know that :PP

its just circumstances & a matter of time :))

vs

Kaua said...

hey chakoli,

a nice read !!!

meeting diff ppl is always learning experience ...u cum to know abt their nature n learn lots abt the actual world...

Phoenix said...

:)
It's a small world, small life, and a lot of people to meet n know. That's the greatest entertainment ever. :P
Nice post

Chakoli said...

@KP...

You dont have to wish dear...its all in ur hand :_)))
try it...and there you would be:-))

Chakoli said...

Vs


LOL....

You aleways have to say that:_)))

Chakoli said...

@kaua

Thaanks dear:-))

@phonix:-))

Somtimes entrtainm,ent and soetimes...more of a fasi ka fanda...;_))))

Aaarti said...

I Love meeting new people.. fascinates me to see how many diff kinds of ppl there are in the world.

some make me happy
some draw me down
and some just annooy the @#$% outta me..hehehe
but my all time fav hobby is to just observe people around me.. maybe cos of being in HR, i love people and learning more abt them, what they are thinking abt etc...;)

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