Reasons!!

This question is disturbing me since ages....Let's see if anybody has an naswer to it?

When do you think a person should get marry?

I could have many answers to it...

  1. When you know you are growing old
  2. When you start feeling lonely...
  3. When you desperately need someone....
  4. When all in your group/family are busy in their own life...
  5. When you are getting bored of your life and thought of "going for a change"
  6. When suddenly you feel some one else should be there whom you can curse/blame for everything you do... ;-)
  7. When your "sweet mom" needs a "bahu...;-)
  8. When you are more of a burden to your family and they are having sleepless nights because of this..:-)


I don't know if its more of an "Indian mentality" that people as soon as reach in there mid 20's either are forced to get marry...or even they themselves start planning for it....

But still I can't find a reason to "tie a knot" :-)

Keep Faith
Chakoli :)

31 comments:

Ankur said...

well...

fall in love n u will know it :)

but yes, its kinda Indian mentality, and looks like someone is forcing u to :P :P

but believe me, its an awesome feeling to be cared, loved n pampered :)

Cheers!!!

Chakoli said...

@ankur:-)))

LOL......

falling in love....have to wait for looong.... cupid is not strking here...;-))

"that force" was started the day I left coll......but I m delaying it with so many reasons...;-)))


Why this pampering and all...is just for all this??

CM-Chap said...

May b when a guy falls for u and when u thnk he is falling too much... Thats the time. ha Ha

On a serious note, I know what ur talking about... My family keep asking me but I haven't foun a reason yet "Why shd I get married?"

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vijay said...

Hold ur horses Chaks,
Ur time will come,
Cupid will strike ..hahaha


anyway, I think the Indian mentality of marrying of in the 20ies is somehow changing.

vs

churningthewordmill said...

u shud marry when u want to ...and when the "right" person comes along..

Chakoli said...

@cm-chap



LOL...
even I know that.....

letc see when it happens althou;-)))

would surely visit:-))

Chakoli said...

@vijay...
hold kiya hua hain dont worry:-)))

haan thoda chage ho rah ahina but nt completely:-))

Chakoli said...

@Mandira:-)))

aise to poori zindagi bhi nikal sakti hain...;-)

Sandhya said...

I think when u feel the feeling of being isolated, u should tie the knot.....

burf said...

u enabled the moderation???

and changed the template???


kya ho gaya? shaadi ke khayal kaise aane lage? ;)

:D :D

nai karni to mat kar, chill maar! world tour laga ke aa ek!!!

~ ॐ ~ said...

na karne ke koi reason..


aur na hi, na karne ka koi reason :)

Ankur said...

hehe... may be u rnt looking at the cupid indications ;) ;)
:D

haha... tat means u r strong enugh then ask them to hold till the time they can... when its unstoppable u have to go for it practically :P

waise wat r those so many resons... humme bhi batao.. :D :D

nahi yaa.. dont get me wrong abt the pampering thing... wat i mean to say is ... love is nothing for someone who doesnt has it (lover wala love :P)... for those who have it its the best feeling, and for those who had it, its the worst feelin :P :P
still main uski waqalat karta hoon :P :P

waise he is comin to pune in june, wanna meet?? :P :P

Cheers!!!

Ankur said...

and since when aapne moderate kar diya comments ko???

Chakoli said...

@Sandhya...

you ask any of the married man/women and they would surely say...being bachelor is better then getting married....:-))

Chakoli said...

@burf

You didnt saw that ad..CEAT

"CHNAGE IS UNAVOIDABLE"
CHANGE IS HEALTHY"


so just changed iit:DDDDDD

Chakoli said...

@om

waah waah...yeh sahi bola..
shadhi ka ladoo...jo khaye woh pachtaye...aur jo na khaye woh bhi;-))

ruSh.Me said...

The right time to marry is when u feel and realize that U are able to take ur responsibility and ur spouse's too.....

We all can easily spend our younger years frolicking and carefree... but when ur are ready be answerable for someone else.....thats the right time....

no gong will sound...
no bell will ring
no clouds will thunder....

u will just come to know!!

Vrij said...

Ankur ne sahi kaha.. fall in love n u'll know..

So, when u getting the tadka??

Chakoli said...

hehe... may be u rnt looking at the cupid indications ;) ;)
:D


LOLz......
I cant see cupid...nor even 'I'...of indications;-))

haha... tat means u r strong enugh then ask them to hold till the time they can... when its unstoppable u have to go for it practically :P

hehehhehehehehhehe....
practically ewhen force is applied frm all directions its hard to resists;-)))

waise wat r those so many resons... humme bhi batao.. :D :D

hehehhehhee...bilkul..... kisi din fursat se...;-))

nahi yaa.. dont get me wrong abt the pampering thing... wat i mean to say is ... love is nothing for someone who doesnt has it (lover wala love :P)... for those who have it its the best feeling, and for those who had it, its the worst feelin :P :P
still main uski waqalat karta hoon :P :P


I m nt taking un wrng...I gt ur point....

but...why just pampering of this type is my question...love has no conditions...;-)))
waise he is comin to pune in june, wanna meet?? :P :P


kewl...along with u kya...?;-)

Chakoli said...

@Ankur

Since this morning...after ur intial comment...LOLzzz...

Chakoli said...

@Vrij

I knew it...TADKA would b eback...;-)))

Chakoli said...

@rushme


Thatsa cute decsription.......:-))
liked ur answer:-)))

Sandhya said...

m totally agree chakoli that better single is better than getting marry.
:-)

geet said...

some lines from 'shall we dance' by susan saradon

We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all of the time, every day. You’re saying ‘Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness’.”

Chakoli said...

@Sandhya:_)))

Yup...there are many others who would agree to it:-))

Chakoli said...

@Geet:-)))

Very cute description....liked it:-))

but these are aftereffects of marriage...
still to get urself prepare for one... is tough!!! isnt?

Ankur said...

**I cant see cupid...nor even 'I'...of indications;-))

and wat no is ur vision??? :P :P
use shades :P heheh

**hehehhehhee...bilkul..... kisi din fursat se...;-))

aur woh fursat ke din kab ayenge ;)

**I m nt taking un wrng...I gt ur point....
but...why just pampering of this type is my question...love has no conditions...;-)))

so who said its conditional, i m just sayin tat when u will be pampered in love u will feel it ;)
:))


**kewl...along with u kya...?;-)

nahi next month, his parents and mine (chacha chachi mom dad anshu him n sanjoli... whole family) :D :D
for vacations on 7 days

**Since this morning...after ur intial comment...LOLzzz...

:O :O
mera comment??? usme aisa kya tha???

Cheers!!!

KP! said...

hmmm....
I have seen people using this reasons to get married...i personaly know people who has done this...:). these same people when i meet them...they ask me....whats happening??

I feel u dont need the reason..u have to find the right one to tie the knot.....

well when u tie the knot...make sure to send me an invitation!!!

J said...

Oh God.. Not this topic again!!

vEENs said...

Ahh... if u r above 23... it is HIGH time u get married.

:-/

yah... thats what... I m 24... and i m VERY OLD!

and that i will not get grooms if i cross over the 26th Bridge is the problem :-/

u r neevr gonna get married after that!

Red Handed said...

WOWOWOWOWOWOWWO...Loool we thought so much alike! But damn you got married and i am still finding my way out :D
nd about the reasons..i guess i shud say ALL OF THE ABOVE :p

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