Affair!!!


Arrey suna tumne, neeta ke husband ka affair uske secretary ke saath chal raha hain

Arrey to kya Neeta ka affair uske driver ke saath….

Affair Unlimited…. !!! Extra Martial Affairs!!! Right or Wrong??

Could a person indulge in an affair with his husband/Wife? I mean when two people are married they are “bound to” be in love. People never comment that they are having affair!! Yup they may comment if that is not happening? If they are at distance, If they don’t sleep together… !!!

Would you mind having an affair with your “own” husband or wife (Here own is stressed as I’m sure to get a comment that "I wont mind having an affair with other’s husband/wife")

I mean going out the same way as couple does, meeting chori-chori, chupke chupke?? Sending flowers? Tonnes of calls on single day !!

I’m sure many would say it is not needed, but don’t you think it could spice up your life?

Keep Faith
Chakoli :)


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28 comments:

Anonymous said...

well to tell u a sicrit ;) I m havin an affair here :D **shhhh** ok..no tell no one ok? :D

it is with my "woh" :D

Chakoli said...

@Veens:))


Ohhh...

secret secret...;)))

sure dear iw ont...;-))

Jigyasa said...

Quite a good idea to spice one's life but actually Chaks once that bound to turns inot i m lovin it state of mind...........nothing goes wrong.........!!! Even the arguements & differences could be soretd out in no time.....

Its all where one looks for peace and where he/she feels he will get.

Did I said so much......I m sure u wont mind!!

Keep Smiling

~mE said...

I was talking to a friend who is married for a while now and with two children. She says after so many years into marriage there is no scope for romance. I just couldnt get it..She says, there are many OTHER important things to take care of than behaving like just out of collage...We discussed,i argued, tried to find more but in vain. She just said get into it and you will know.

Then i had a discussion with another friend who is not married and we had one million ways to keep the spark going...

I guess, ill know only when i get into it...:D
To answer your question... right now NO...but i would love to..when it happens i will tell u ok ....abhi to "Woh" he nai mila :D
but i hear you..

Chakoli said...

@Jigs:))


hey...wont mind ever of what u say:))

quite true... to what u said indeed:))

Chakoli said...

@me:))

LOL...
yup I guess we could realize only when we are into it:))

yup yup..aapko bahut jald "woh" mil jayenge:DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

Unknown said...

hheh chaks,

if what u write happens, this earth wud be heaven.

people have become 2 egocentric & dont seem 2 think beyond themselves.

thats the root causes of todays woes

vs

Chakoli said...

@vs:))

Agreed....

Ego is causing problem... and even people non-adjusting nature:((

Keshi said...

Kinky post!

U sure can. Thats what we call ROLE PLAY. ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

btw, being married may get boring...to u hv to spice up ur love life by pretending to hv affairs with ur own spouse..its all kinky stuff. :)

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

A married man was having an affair with his secretary. One day they went to her place and made love all afternoon. Exhausted, they fell asleep and woke up at 8 PM. The man hurriedly dressed and told his lover to take his shoes outside and rub them in the grass and dirt. He put on his shoes and drove home. "Where have you been?" his wife demanded. "I can't lie to you," he replied, "I'm having an affair with my secretary. We had sex all afternoon." She looked down at his shoes and said: "You lying bastard! You've been playing golf!"

Hehehehe!! :)

mazak said...

only affair i know of is "current affairs" ;-) ....gandhiji's autobiography i want to read after reading ur great review of it ... hope u r doing well...tk care

Solitaire said...

It is a great idea. That's what people are advised to do when they go through the 7-year-itch or something like that. But how authentic it will be...I do not know. It all sounds romantic now but when kids are in the picture, a zillion other responsibilities, and hormones not kicking in so hard...I do not know!!

Vrijilesh Rai said...

Oh yes we do... not too much but occasionally, we sure do such stuff!

Unknown said...

hahaha.. yep yep affairs definitely spice up the life, depends on whom you having an affair with ;)

Anonymous said...

I married my husband so that I can have an affair with him legally :)

maverick said...

lol...nice thought actually

Anonymous said...

wts the big deal...? if a man is happy with his secretary, go on and continue... its the same to rhe wife... let the world get to know about it, speak abt it and make a news of it... the popularity of the couple increases because of their 'paper' marriage and extra 'paper' romance... reporters take interviews, magazines'll carry their pics and they'll enjoy a celeb life...

everything is present in that life except morality. both have to murder their self-respect a thousand times everyday. embarrassment becomes their entertainment... and the grand gateway for the world's end will open...
now, the question is, will it matter...?

Chakoli said...

@keshi:))

yup yup...

ROLE PLAY:)))))))))))


Is it boring...
dosent seems to me thou...lets c..if I change my statement once I marry ;-))

Chakoli said...

@Nikhil :))

LOL....

hehhehehhehe..
what u want to prove...gals always belive that men are lying to them...or was it about the affair ;)

Chakoli said...

@mazak :))

yup dear me doing good:)
u do take care :)

Chakoli said...

@Sol :))

I agree to what u said...but u saw that movie baghban... I love it...
some hw elderly romance is more fascinating is what I think :PP

Chakoli said...

@Vrij

Thankfully u accepted it ;_))

Chakoli said...

@J:))

thats what I said ...not with others but ur own :PP

Chakoli said...

@Homy:))

nice thot:)

Chakoli said...

@maverick:)

then wud u follow it?

Chakoli said...

@Harshasrisri :))
Here I m trying to make a point that cud u indulge in affir with ur own hubby/wife...

I never said that go with others:))

Ashish Soni said...

okay so this is ur new hub.. :)

first of all
the layout is pretty nice... :)

what is the website.. ?
i'll try n give a similar look to my blog :)

So about affair..:)

Thats human nature :)...

No one is satisfied in this world...

Some go ahead without thinking about the consequences....and other are mature enough to understand the consequences and they control themselves.. :)

On TOI there are lots n lots of articles on relationships, affairs, infidelity....and all....

Earlier i used to think that all that is bad...but these articles gave a new perspective...:)

"btw I am from the loyal and faithful category :)..." :)

take care
~Ali

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