All or Few?

In a recent discussion with one of my friend, she was sounding too frustrated….!!! Reason- people are unhappy with her, whatever she does, either land up in some misunderstanding, or doing a favor to some is not liked by others.

I couldn’t have helped her, but one thing I noticed is that she was trying to make each and every person happy…., which as far as I think is not possible. One cannot please every person on this earth. You need to stick to your group or your people….!! Yup this is sounding to be selfish…but is actually better then being “DISLIKED” by each and every person on this earth…..isnt?


Keep Faith
Chakoli:-)

30 comments:

burf said...

there is nothing at all selfish about that

just try to not hurt others but don't worry about keeping everyone happy

Vamsi said...

@ chakoli ...
nice thought ... log bhaad mein jaayein ... hamein kya ?
so true ...

Jiyo lyf !! said...

yea may b dear i ahve recently recongnised that making evry1 happy n neglecting oneself entirely could b v disadvantageous

Kaua

Sandhya said...

dats absolutely true dear.

Homecooked said...

You are right! Noone can please everyone.Your friend seems to be a naive girl.If she realises what she does is not helping she should give it a break!

KP! said...

Its impossible to keep everyone happy!

Chakoli said...

@burf

Yups its not selfish...but sometimes I feel bad for that......cant help it.....this consous thing is bad;-)))

Chakoli said...

@vamsi:-))

Its not log bhaad mein jaaye.....but someitme "u urself" is the higest priority:-))

Chakoli said...

@kaua:-)))

I agree ot it:-)))

I agree...sacrifice is okie... but dont keep neglecting ur self:-))

Chakoli said...

@sandhya:-)))
Thanks sweetie:-))

Chakoli said...

@homecooked:-))

hopefully she does:-)))

Chakoli said...

@KP:-)))

yups:-))

burf said...

yea, sure is bad, kill it ;) :D

Chakoli said...

@burf...

I cant do it myself...do u knw some "BHAI LOG"??;-)))

vijay said...

Hey Chaks,

sounds a bit like mee 2,

I also have this drawback of trying 2 please :(((

vs

Phoenix said...

Yep, u cant please everyone all the time...but unno about sticking to a 'group' thing...it has its own cons...u end up trying to please a certain set of ppl for everything even though u dont really want to do it.

divya said...

umm we cant make everyone happy...

but still we can TRY :)

AlterinG Abhishek said...

nc

Lust4Life said...

Hi Chaks,

Pleasing all is highly impossible, jus the way our fingers are not alike.

Pleasing all wud mean pleasing none.
Best way is to 'Be yourself'. It works wonders...

I hav dropped a comment on ur tag post as well. Do check it out..


Love,Live,Laughter
Lust4Life

J said...

Oh well, one cannot please everyone. That's the fact :)

Vamsi said...

@ chakoli ...

happy holi !

Chakoli said...

@vs...

I know that:-)))

SO have u chnaged now? or are u still the same???:PPP

vijay said...

Hie Chaks,

nahee rey.

bad habits die hard :))

vs

burf said...

i don't

but even if i would have they would have been able to take care of the visible things,

and this thing being invisible and inside you, it has to be done by you, u see :P

Chakoli said...

@Phoinix...

Thats depends upon the individual.... and setting up of priorities.....

Chakoli said...

@divya...

:-)))


yup trying could be done...but if its not reaping any results...better to leave it:-)))

Chakoli said...

@Abhi...
'nc'...what was dat??

Chakoli said...

@L4L....

I agree...pleasing alll is not possible....its more of a like....u being locked in a suffocating room....:-)))

Yup saw that...thanks for such lovely comments:-)))

Chakoli said...

@J

Thanks dear:-)))

@vamsi...hey to u too:-)))

Chakoli said...

@burf
LOL....
these invisible things would end up automaticallly...once u end the visible things:-)))

cut the problem from root:PPP

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