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We meet /see a person and there we have a image about him. Right or wrong that time will prove, but we study him, allow our instincts to judge and come to a conclusion. May be future meetings could prove us wrong or right , depends. But each time we try to make a judgement. isnt? :D
How many of you meet a person and could recognize him/her? I mean what type of personality he/she is at first go?
And what you usually look into someone’s personality? I mean body posture, way of speaking, smile… and lot more things… !! :v
For me they have to be eyes… I don’t know but they reveal a lot to me… :d
Let me know what other’s think?

Just another 'Q'- Is it hard to understand female species by there body language, eyes,talking.....??
Keep Faith
Chakoli :)

33 comments:

  1. Eyes... that is what I look for..body language yes..though i don't make any conscious effort to concentrate on body language, its the complete personality that makes an impression.
    Then I go with my instincts , as to what the person is faking or what is real.The content of his talks and his mannerism adds to it.

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  2. @OM

    Vibes...thats a new thing fr me to look at...;-))

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  3. @Mr Lonely...

    Agreed... to all that but I assume that a step by step procedure...
    the 1st thing u look fr is eyes only na??

    and hw abt ur judging capability??is it right mostly?

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  4. Yes eyes the first thing ..and ..I'd say yes I've been right >90% of the times..

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  5. @Mr Lonely:_))

    Thats good... if you have right most of the times...and any incident when it went wrong??

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  6. Well.. those incidents involve the fairer sex.. :( .And don't ask me the reason why ..

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  7. GM Chaks,

    Body language & confidence have ben misleading at times 2 me.

    Eyes - yes , they r generally the telltales.

    yet one has 2 have the ability 2 correctly read them, some one looking down while conversing wid U is generally considered sly - yet cud be shy

    vs

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  8. @Mr Lonely...

    Hmmm....

    So is it tough to understand women??;-))

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  9. I go for instinct... my instinct does the job for me.... and most of the time its damn true.... though eyes part cant be ignored.... but they are not always true..
    moreover I always wear my eye gears .. so u might just not make guesses about me...

    and well in our virtual world its the comments and the template of the blog which makes a picture in my mind about a blogger..

    as in your case ... i think .. u r a happy go lucky kinda person... mutitasking all the time.. living alone .. working for some MNC but at general shifts.. like behaving childish.. thou the thinking is pretty matured.. and must be beautiful.. as your thinking is..

    What say??

    Tc.
    Omi

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  10. Not really..the truth is.. "Its tough to believe your instincts that someone is not what you heart believes them to be!!"

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  11. @vs

    yup yup...what you said I fully agree to it.. at times even what is view could be wrong :-)))

    but still they are the major parameters...to judge a people...:-))

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  12. @Bomy

    Yup inctincts help a lot I would say...

    You know people wering glasses even at night - I m scare of them.... even u do the same??

    About me...

    not everything is correct... LOL...nice analysis but;-))

    thanks fr that:-))

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  13. @Mr Lonely

    but ur heart mite have belived to it coz of some reasons na...:-))

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  14. Ohh damn.. i should have thot twicw b4 commenting on that beautiful thingie... lols ;)

    kidding..

    What didn't went right in my analysis..

    Tc.
    Omi- i don't wear them at night.. .. i mean my Eye gears..

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  15. @Bomy:-))

    LOL...

    I dnt live alone....

    I dnt like to behave childish....Did I ever did this??;-)))

    I m not beutiful....

    LOL you dont wear them at night...and then explicitly mentioning I mean my eye gear...;-))))

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  16. Okay there were some presumptions to it..

    1. You wanted Delhi Daredevils to go to semis, thats what made me think that you a Delhiite .. putting up in Pune (i hope so) for the sake of Career all alone without family ..

    2.Your Profile pic carries Tweet.. that implies you like behaving childish..

    3.Your posts are thou very matured
    4.Uncles interviewing you and throwing proposals, also to add on there are guys parking their vehicle next to yours and proposing you and overall your beautiful thoughts.. damn.. leads me to think that you are Beautifull..

    I know its dumb kinda observaton.. but thats hoe i am ..
    Tc Chakoli..
    Omi

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  17. I frankly do not waste energy trying to figure out someone's personality. If I do need to talk to the person, then all I do is try to think what would be the ideal way to start a conversation.

    Otherwise.. if its a female with a neat figure.. u know what I wud be doing ;)

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  18. I think its the way one carries himself/herself and their way of talking. Yes the eyes play a significant role though.....Agreed.

    But let me confess, most of the times I mistake.....and my friends or family give the real picture.

    Anyways....I am back Chaks. How have you been?

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  19. Hi chakoli,

    Vry true. I always try to judge others at a first glace n i seriouly look for his/her dressing sense, shoes, way of speaking.

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  20. @Bomy...
    Here goes my answers:-))

    1. :_)) I was in Delhi that too all alone..buliding career..but currently with family in Pune:-)))

    2.Tweety...as one of frd used to love it...and it always reminded me of her:-))

    3.Thanks for that :-)) Dont I sound stupid..idiot crazy gal??;-))
    4.Abt uncle... LOL... no comments on that;-))


    This surely proves u too be a lwyer...coming to a comclusion thru clues..;-)))

    Thanks dear...:-))

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  21. @Vrij

    so fr u.. all neat gals are "Good"??

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  22. @Jigyasa


    Hey u r back...wow....:-)))

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  23. there has to be initial attraction and good conversation in other words a definite connection.....:).

    Just another 'Q'- Is it hard to understand female species by there body language, eyes,talking.....??

    its impossible to understand them....lolz

    For me they have to be eyes… I don’t know but they reveal a lot to me…

    well...since eyes tell u the story...ok...lets hear ur thoery abt me!!

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  24. well... i dont have a say here on this!!! :)

    Cheers!!!

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  25. One conversation is essential, because eventually it's the thought process that makes a person. But observation plays a big role, and I in particular play intention to how that person interacts with the worls, with his/her surroundings and people around them

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  26. @KP

    Yup I know for you guys its hard to understand gals... coz of ur less IQ...;-)))

    I have to meet you there...to look into ur eyes..;-)))

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  27. @Phoenix

    Yup yup...the way peopel interact with others could be different many a times....

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  28. Well meetin a person at first instance u can know things only at macro level, but to know details in micro level a lot of meetings are needed.

    Well I generally look up at the personality, mentality, communication skills, sense of humour, dressin sense (and shud b horny too LOL)....

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