In a recent discussion with one of my friend, she was sounding too frustrated….!!! Reason- people are unhappy with her, whatever she does, either land up in some misunderstanding, or doing a favor to some is not liked by others.
I couldn’t have helped her, but one thing I noticed is that she was trying to make each and every person happy…., which as far as I think is not possible. One cannot please every person on this earth. You need to stick to your group or your people….!! Yup this is sounding to be selfish…but is actually better then being “DISLIKED” by each and every person on this earth…..isnt?
Keep Faith
Chakoli:-)
I couldn’t have helped her, but one thing I noticed is that she was trying to make each and every person happy…., which as far as I think is not possible. One cannot please every person on this earth. You need to stick to your group or your people….!! Yup this is sounding to be selfish…but is actually better then being “DISLIKED” by each and every person on this earth…..isnt?
Keep Faith
Chakoli:-)
there is nothing at all selfish about that
ReplyDeletejust try to not hurt others but don't worry about keeping everyone happy
@ chakoli ...
ReplyDeletenice thought ... log bhaad mein jaayein ... hamein kya ?
so true ...
yea may b dear i ahve recently recongnised that making evry1 happy n neglecting oneself entirely could b v disadvantageous
ReplyDeleteKaua
dats absolutely true dear.
ReplyDeleteYou are right! Noone can please everyone.Your friend seems to be a naive girl.If she realises what she does is not helping she should give it a break!
ReplyDeleteIts impossible to keep everyone happy!
ReplyDelete@burf
ReplyDeleteYups its not selfish...but sometimes I feel bad for that......cant help it.....this consous thing is bad;-)))
@vamsi:-))
ReplyDeleteIts not log bhaad mein jaaye.....but someitme "u urself" is the higest priority:-))
@kaua:-)))
ReplyDeleteI agree ot it:-)))
I agree...sacrifice is okie... but dont keep neglecting ur self:-))
@sandhya:-)))
ReplyDeleteThanks sweetie:-))
@homecooked:-))
ReplyDeletehopefully she does:-)))
@KP:-)))
ReplyDeleteyups:-))
yea, sure is bad, kill it ;) :D
ReplyDelete@burf...
ReplyDeleteI cant do it myself...do u knw some "BHAI LOG"??;-)))
Hey Chaks,
ReplyDeletesounds a bit like mee 2,
I also have this drawback of trying 2 please :(((
vs
Yep, u cant please everyone all the time...but unno about sticking to a 'group' thing...it has its own cons...u end up trying to please a certain set of ppl for everything even though u dont really want to do it.
ReplyDeleteumm we cant make everyone happy...
ReplyDeletebut still we can TRY :)
nc
ReplyDeleteHi Chaks,
ReplyDeletePleasing all is highly impossible, jus the way our fingers are not alike.
Pleasing all wud mean pleasing none.
Best way is to 'Be yourself'. It works wonders...
I hav dropped a comment on ur tag post as well. Do check it out..
Love,Live,Laughter
Lust4Life
Oh well, one cannot please everyone. That's the fact :)
ReplyDelete@ chakoli ...
ReplyDeletehappy holi !
@vs...
ReplyDeleteI know that:-)))
SO have u chnaged now? or are u still the same???:PPP
Hie Chaks,
ReplyDeletenahee rey.
bad habits die hard :))
vs
i don't
ReplyDeletebut even if i would have they would have been able to take care of the visible things,
and this thing being invisible and inside you, it has to be done by you, u see :P
@Phoinix...
ReplyDeleteThats depends upon the individual.... and setting up of priorities.....
@divya...
ReplyDelete:-)))
yup trying could be done...but if its not reaping any results...better to leave it:-)))
@Abhi...
ReplyDelete'nc'...what was dat??
@L4L....
ReplyDeleteI agree...pleasing alll is not possible....its more of a like....u being locked in a suffocating room....:-)))
Yup saw that...thanks for such lovely comments:-)))
@J
ReplyDeleteThanks dear:-)))
@vamsi...hey to u too:-)))
@burf
ReplyDeleteLOL....
these invisible things would end up automaticallly...once u end the visible things:-)))
cut the problem from root:PPP